Glad to have you visit my little corner of the blog world! I'm a minister's wife and stay-at-home mommy.
Here you will find LOTS of book reviews, because I LOVE to read. You'll also get a little peak into our family life as we seek to raise the three gifts from the Lord with which we have been richly blessed and a little of the things I'm learning as I daily surrender to the Lord in complete trust. This life isn't always easy, but it is an adventure like no other. At the end of each day, I rest in the faithfulness of Almighty God.
Praying you are blessed by your visit with me!
We don’t get to choose between humility and orthodoxy. We need both.
In Humble Orthodoxy, bestselling author Joshua Harris examines New
Testament teachings about the calling of believers to a love-infused
courage that ignores foolish controversies, patiently endures evil, and
champions truth with generosity of spirit. Without this kind of
humility, Harris asserts, we become like the Pharisees—right in our
doctrine, but ultimately destroying the cause of truth with our pride.
This tiny 96 page book packs a powerful punch! For example, consider this quote from the forward by J.D. Greear:
"A great deal of damage is done by those who hold the truth of Christ with the spirit of satan."
For those wondering if Harris has written another book that is soft or compromising on holding high the truths of God's Word in the name of loving thy neighbor, consider these words from Harris in chapter one:
"Love for God and love for neighbor require us to oppose falsehood. There is nothing more unloving than to be silent in the face of lies that will ruin another person."
"You and I need to contend for the truth. But there's a fine line between contending for truth and being contentious. I think this is why, in his final instructions to Timothy, the seasoned apostle went out of his way to tell Timothy that even though orthodoxy is important, it's not enough by itself. Truth matters, but so does our attitude."
As believers, we have received the most rich and abundant grace and mercy from our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ - atonement for our sins, redemption, and restoration that opens up the way for a right standing with God and a relationship with Him. How can we effectively share the good news with anyone without extending a portion of that same grace and mercy? The message of Harris's book is that we can't.
Humble Orthodoxy contains a message that is needed to be heard by every pastor, minister, and lay Christian who cares about reaching others with the good news of salvation found in Jesus Christ.
The book contains a study guide that would be helpful for use in a Sunday School setting or small group meeting. The study guide isn't designed just to fill the reader's head with more knowledge, but encourages practical application with given action steps to be taken and exhorts the learner to know the truth and know how to hold it high while loving others with the love of Christ.
I highly recommend this book!
*I received a complimentary copy of the book from the publisher, WaterBrook Multnomah for the purpose of this review as part of their Blogging for Books program.
Hayley DiMarco is the author of more than 30 books, including God Girl, Mean Girls, and Die Young. In 2002, Hayley left Thomas Nelson Publishers to begin Hungry Planet with her husband Michael. Hungry Planet is a company focused on producing books that combine hard-hitting biblical truth with cutting-edge design. She has been the featured guest speaker for Women of Faith, Precept National Women's Convention and MOPS International. She has also consulted for some of the largest stadium events for young women in North America.
You can connect with Hayley via her Facebook page as well as on Twitter.
Hayley also disciples young girls through her website found at www.godgirl.com. There you can find out more about Hayley and her writing and ministry as well as follow her blog.
Hayley's latest book, The Fruitful Wife: Cultivating A Love Only Go Can Produce, was published by Crossway in September 2012. Crossway sent me an Advanced Reader copy of The Fruitful Wife for the purpose of this review.
Book Synopsis: Marriage is God's tool of sanctification and this should bring women hope when things get hard. Yet very few women have the idea of spiritual growth at the front of their minds when conflict arises. In The Fruitful Wife, Hayley DiMarco applies the fruit of the Spirit to wives, taking a look at how each fruit impacts a woman's day-to-day life and manifests itself (or hides itself) as she attempts to love others the way God loves her. DiMarco is readily transparent about her own struggles, sharing with readers her fights for control, authority, and respect. Ultimately, DiMarco teaches how even the rockiest of marriages can live out the fruit God intends to produce.
Hear from Hayley herself in this beautiful video about the message of The Fruitful Wife:
I highly recommend The Fruitful Wife! DiMarco's message and encouragement is gospel centered and focuses on Christ as the source and foundation of all that we do in our lives. He is the vine and we are the branches and DiMarco stresses the most important and vital work of abiding in Him in order to produce good fruit for our husbands and our children and others we impact with our lives.
DiMarco's writing is clear and biblical focusing on God's Word. She offers practical ways to live out the information she shares. I also appreciate Hayley's transparency in her own struggles to display the fruit of the Spirit in her own life and marriage. The Fruitful Wife would be an excellent resource to use in a small group Bible study or would be perfect to read and study through in a discipleship relationship.
You can order the book at Amazon.com by going HERE.
S. Dionne Moore started writing in 2006. Her first book, Murder on the Ol’Bunions,
was contracted for publication by Barbour Publishing in 2008. In 2009
she moved on to writing historical romances as an outlet for her passion
for history. In 2010 her second cozy mystery, Polly Dent Loses Grip,
was a 2010 Carol Award finalist and she was also named a Barbour
Publishing 2010 Favorite New Author. In 2011 her first historical
romance, Promise of Tomorrow, was nominated a 2011 Carol Award finalist.
Born and raised in Manassas, Virginia, Moore moved to Greencastle, PA in
1993, then to Mercersburg in 2009. Moore enjoys life in the
historically rich Cumberland Valley where traffic jams are a thing of
the past and there are only two stoplights in the whole town.
For more information, visit her Website at www.sdionnemoore.com.
Follow her on Twitter: @sdionnemoore
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When a band of runaway slaves brings Union-loyal Beth Bumgartner a
wounded Confederate soldier named Joe, it is the catalyst that pushes
her to defy her pacifist parents and become a nurse during the Battle of
Antietam.
Her mother's mysterious goodbye gift is filled with quilt blocks that
bring comfort to Beth during the hard days and lonely nights, but as she
sews each block, she realizes there is a hidden message of faith within
the pattern that encourages and sustains her. Reunited with Joe, Beth
learns his secret and puts the quilt's message to its greatest test—but
can betrayal be forgiven?
If you would like to read the first chapter of A Heartbeat Away, go HERE.
My Thoughts:
I have read many of the other books in the Quilts of Love series, but this one may be my favorite thus far. Ms Moore weaves a story of love, loss, surrender and sacrifice that touches just about every human emotion. While historical romances are not typically my favorite to read, Ms Moore may have just won me over to that genre!
Deborah
Raney is the award-winning author of several novels, including "A Nest
of Sparrows" and the RITA award winning "Beneath a Southern Sky" and its
sequel, "After the Rains". Deborah's first novel, "A Vow to Cherish",
was the inspiration for World Wide Pictures' highly acclaimed film of
the same title, which in December 2004 aired on prime time network TV
for the second time. Deb's novella, "Playing by Heart", was a National
Readers Choice Award winner and a 2004 Christy Award finalist. Her novel
for Howard/Simon & Schuster, "Yesterday's Embers", appeared on the
ECPA Christian fiction bestseller list. Known for her sensitive
portrayal of family struggles and relationships, Deb has also written
nonfiction books and articles and often speaks at women's retreats and
writers' conferences around the country. She and her husband,
illustrator/author Ken Raney, have four children and make their home in
Kansas.
When
Mitchell Brannon's beloved wife of twenty years kisses him goodbye one
autumn morning, he has little idea that his life is about to change
forever. Mitch returns from work early that evening, surprised Jill's
car isn't in the garage. Her conference in Kansas City is only a few
hours' drive from their little town of Sylvia, Missouri. But her voice
on the answering machine makes him smile. "Hey, babe, I'm just now
checking out of the hotel, but I'll stop and pick up something for
dinner. Love you."
Mitch sets the table with their best china and lights some candles, looking forward to their first weekend as empty nesters.
But
at eight o'clock, the candles have burned to stubs and Jill still
hasn't shown up. Mitch tries her cell phone only to get her voice mail
over and over again. Their two college kids haven't heard from their mom
either.
At midnight, Mitch's irritation turns to dread. And later,
when the police and Missouri Highway Patrol have turned up nothing, the
Kansas City hotel calls to say they've found property belonging to Jill
in a hotel maid's possession.
Mitch
enlists the help of their next-door neighbor, Jill's best friend,
Shelley, and together they search for clues to Jill's disappearance. As
days turn into weeks and weeks into months, Mitch and Shelley's
friendship grows ever closer--and decidedly complicated with Jill as the
tie that binds them together. Just when Shelley decides to finally
reveal her feelings for Mitch, a clue to Jill's whereabouts is
uncovered. But every lead seems to be a dead end, and Mitch wonders how
he can honor the vows he made to a woman who has seemingly disappeared
off the face of the earth.
My Thoughts about the book:
I've only read one other book by Deborah Raney, but I can tell you this...I am a fan! Deborah is a master storyteller who weaves emotion into her stories that the reader can almost feel. She presents characters that seem so real that you immediately find a connection that grabs you from the beginning and doesn't let you go until long after you have turned the last page. In The Face of the Earth, Raney presents a story that engulfed me from the first paragraph. The tension and suspense was enough that I was literally sitting on the edge of my chair turning pages faster and faster at certain points. The plot twists and turns and ups and downs and the ending...oh you'll just have to read it yourself!
The dream began in third grade, when Ms. Miller encouraged Travis
Thrasher with his simple pirate story. That combined with daily readings
during lunchtime of The Chronicles of Narnia by C.S. Lewis inspired
Travis to want to become a novelist.
That dream and desire have never gone away.
He worked as Author Relations Manager for Tyndale House Publishers, the publisher of his first two novels. The thirteen years he spent working in author relations taught him the business of publishing as well as the psyche of writers. He views his first ten years of being published as training and practice. Those novels in many ways were written for himself. The four years of writing fulltime have taught him the discipline and
determination necessary to make it as a novelist. They’ve also served to
close the chapter on what is hopefully just one era in his writing
journey. The dream remains the same. To try and write something magnificent. To
make up wild worlds full of wonderfully rich characters. To make sense
of the world through the stories he tells. And to try and inspire hope
with the words he writes. To learn more about what Travis's philosophy of writing novels go HERE and read his blog post which will give you a little more insight into what is behind his excellent writing.
(Bio taken in part from the author's website which can be found at www.travisthrasher.com.)
You can also connect with Travis via Facebook and Twitter.
Travis's latest book Home Run: Freedom Is Possible (published by David C. Cook)is a novelization based on the movie Home Runstarring Vivica A. Fox and Scott Elrod.
Book Synopsis:
It's never too late...
Baseball star Cory Brand knows how to win. But off the field, he's spiraling out of control. Haunted by old wounds and regrets, his future seems as hopeless as his past. Until one moment - one mistake - changes everything. To save his career, Cory must go back to the town where it all began. His plan is simple: coach the local Little League team, complete a recovery program, and get out as fast as possible. Instead, he runs headfirst into memories he can't escape...and the love he left behind. Faced with a second chance he never expected, Cory embarks on a journey of faith, transformation, and redemption. And along the way, he discovers a powerful truth: no one is beyond the healing of God. Home Run is an inspirational story of the hope God offers each of us.
My Thoughts:
Travis Thrasher's writing is different and unique...in a very, very, good way! I first encountered his gift when I read his Solitary Tales. He drew me into a genre that I had previously not enjoyed, but he made me enjoy that series very much. Thrasher has a unique gift in his writing of helping you crawl into the mind of his characters. He accomplishes this with Cory Brand in Home Run. And again Thrasher has caused me to rethink my desire to read novelizations of movies. Typically, for me, novelizations read as stilted "re-writes" of movie scripts. You know where you feel as if you are just moving from scene to scene? Due to the depth of Thrashers ability to draw the reader into his characters, the story in Home Run reads fluently. I really enjoyed how in between the chapters, Thrasher fills you in on Cory's back story in short "snap shots"of information from the past. Thrasher has done an amazing job of giving his readers a vivid picture of the fall of man and an even greater picture of the transformation and grace available through Jesus Christ. I have a feeling that from this point on that if Travis Thrasher's name is on the cover of a book...I'll be reading it!
*THANK YOU David C. Cook for providing the complimentary copy of this book through The Book Club Network's Reader's Only group for the purpose of this review! And THANK YOU Fred St. Laurent for hosting the chat with author Travis Thrasher! If you like to read and think it would be fun to connect with other avid readers and authors, then you will want to check out BookFun.org!
*To learn more about the recovery program highlighted in Home Run, you can visit the official website for Celebrate Recovery by going HERE.
Dee Henderson is the bestselling, award-winning author of 15 previous novels,
including the acclaimed O'MALLEY series and UNCOMMON HEROES series.
These days, most authors are out there energetically promoting their
books in print
and broadcast and via social media—wherever they can get attention. But
Dee Henderson keeps a low profile. She avoids telephone interviews
because of hearing problems, declined to provide a current photo, and
will say only that she lives in Illinois.
It's a summer of change for Jennifer O'Malley. The busy physician has a
pediatrics practice in Dallas, and meeting Tom Peterson, and falling in
love, is adding a rich layer to her life. She's sorting out how to
introduce him to her family--she's the youngest of seven--and thinking
about marriage.
She's falling in love with Jesus too, and knows God is good. But that
faith is about to be tested in a way she didn't expect, and the results
will soon transform her entire family.
If you would like to read the first chapter of Jennifer: An O’Malley Love Story, go to HERE.
My Thoughts on the Book:
Jennifer: An O'Malley Love Story is the story behind the story of Henderson's famous O'Malley Series. Unfortunately I haven't read the O'Malley series, but after reading Jennifer's story...I must! I'm so glad I had the opportunity to read this story in conjunction with the Christian Fiction Blog Alliance. It has certainly piqued my interest in reading the rest of the story! I have read a couple of Henderson's other books and she is an exceptional writer of contemporary themes. We are blessed as avid readers to have her share her gift with us!
Kathi Macias is a multi-award winning writer who has authored nearly 40
books and ghostwritten several others. A former newspaper columnist and
string reporter, Kathi has taught creative and business
writing
in various venues and has been a guest on many radio and television
programs. Kathi is a popular speaker at churches, women’s clubs and
retreats, and writers’ conferences. She won the 2008 Member of the Year
award from AWSA (Advanced Writers and Speakers Association) and was the
2011 Author of the Year from BooksandAuthors.net. Her novel set in
China, Red Ink, was named Golden Scrolls 2011 Novel of the Year and was also a Carol Award Finalist; her October 2012 release, Unexpected Christmas Hero, was named 2012 Book of the Year by BookandAuthors.net. Kathi “Easy Writer” Macias lives in Homeland, CA, with her husband.
Kathi is passionate about The Voice of the Martyrs and Open Doors. To learn more about the persecuted church, please visit VOM’s website and Open Doors Website.
Kathi can be reached through the Contact link on her Website.
Welcome to Bloomfield, where life is simple, love is real, and stories are shared.
Lynn Myers is still reeling from losing her husband of thirty-five years
when word comes that her only sibling, an older brother, has also died.
With no one else to settle the estate, she must return to her small
hometown of Bloomfield, however briefly, to settle his affairs.
Lynn’s daughter, Rachel, has just graduated fromBible college and with no other commitments comes along to sort through her uncle’s huge old home, right next to the local cemetery.
It isn't long before Rachel has two men -- a handsome CPA and the youth
pastor -- seriously vying for her attention. At the same time, Lynn's
attention is drawn to a set of journals her brother has left behind
detailing a long-standing Bloomfield mystery.
As they pursue solving this mystery, Rachel must make some personal
decisions about her future, while Lynn is forced to face unexpected
issues from her own past.
If you would like to read the first chapter of Last Chance for Justice, go HERE.
My Thoughts:
Last Chance for Justice moved a little slow for me. However, the story here is a nice, easy read. Ms Macias weaves a tender story of the mother/daughter relationship, a little romance and a bit of mystery in the atmosphere of the small town. Having grown up in a small town myself, there were many times I had to chuckle and felt like I was back at "home". This would be a perfect Summer read.
Lisa Takeuchi Cullen was a longtime staff writer for TIME magazine. She
now develops TV pilots for production companies and recently sold her
first pilot for "The Ordained" to CBS. Born in Japan, Cullen lives in
New Jersey with family.
You can learn more about Cullen and her work at her website: www.lisacullen.com. You also might consider connecting with Cullen via her Facebook author page and on Twitter.
What’s it like when the man you married is already married to God?
Cullen’s debut novel Pastors’ Wives follows three women whose
lives converge and intertwine at a Southern evangelical megachurch.
Ruthie follows her Wall Street husband from New York to Magnolia, a
fictional suburb of Atlanta, when he hears a calling to serve at a
megachurch called Greenleaf. Reeling from the death of her mother,
Ruthie suffers a crisis of faith—in God, in her marriage, and in
herself. Candace is Greenleaf’s “First Lady,” a force of nature who’ll
stop at nothing to protect her church and her superstar husband. Ginger,
married to Candace’s son, struggles to play dutiful wife and mother
while burying her calamitous past. All their roads collide in one
chaotic event that exposes their true selves. Inspired by Cullen’s
reporting as a staff writer for Time magazine, Pastors’ Wives is a dramatic portrayal of the private lives of pastors’ wives, caught between the demands of faith, marriage, duty, and love.
*This book is published by Plume and inprint of Penguin.
My Thoughts About The Book: Having been a pastor's wife for 21 years now, I was immediately drawn to the title of Lisa's book. I also understood going in that the book was not necessarily published under the genre of "Christian Fiction" and Christian fiction it is not. It is a novel (fiction) with Christian/religious themes. Having said that, I was still a little taken back with some of the language and one (what I would consider) pornographic portion of the book. However, I would have to say that the book is very well written. Cullen's characters are well developed and very shortly into the book you feel like you know these women. I like how Cullen shared the story from all three women's perspective. She rotates the story from chapter to chapter from each vantage point, but the story flows well. I also thought she did an exceptional job of filling the reader in on the backstory of each woman and did so fluently. My favorite Pastor's Wife in the book was Ginger. I immediately was able to relate to her on several levels. Cullen did a really good job of painting a clear picture of the gospel showing the power of God's transforming grace through Ginger's story. Anyone who reads this book will get a vivid and true-to-life picture of the struggle many face, pastor's wife or not, in finding grace and learning to lean on and trust in God. Whether the picture of the inner workings of a megachurch that Cullen presents in her book are realistic or not, I wouldn't know. However, if Ms Cullen is still working out her own faith (and I could sometimes almost feel what I guessed to be the authors' personal religious tension inher writing), I certainly hope and pray she finds a Bible believing and gospel infused body of believers to walk out her journey of faith with.
Go HERE and see what others are saying about the book.
And don't miss the fun giveaway and Facebook party Lisa Cullen and Litfuse Publicity are hosting:
Enter Today - 5/2 - 5/23!
*Thank you Litfuse Publicity for providing a complimentary copy of the book for the purpose of review!
I’m a wife, mother, and bona fide Southern belle. Published author, expert corn bread maker, and Squirrel Princess.
I live in Tulsa, though I was born in Mississippi. I moved to the Sooner
State when I was seventeen and met my soul mate and best friend not
long after. I’ve retained a little of my Mississippi accent though most
people think I’m from Texas. (?) Rob and I have been married for over
twenty years and have a son–a mom proclaimed prodigy, of course!
I love homemade tacos, shoes, and romance novels–not necessarily in that
order. I’m a big fan of country music, a staunch proponent of saving
the Oxford comma, and I’m shamefully obsessed with all things Harry
Potter.
I believe that God is love. I guess that’s why I adore romances.
I have always been intrigued with the Amish culture, their gentle ways
and slower-paced lifestyle. (And I love, love, love the fact that they
stay married for their lifetime.) But until recently I never thought to
blend this interest with my penchant for romance. Okay, okay, I’m a bit
old-fashioned and even enjoy the gender roles that are present in this
culture. I love to cook and take care of my family. Yes, that’s me
June Cleaver with a laptop.
I dislike people trying to convince me to read the Twlight series (I’ll
get to it or I won’t, either way I’m good with it), gratuitous violence,
and strawberry ice cream. (I know I’m alone on this last one, and
again, I’m good with it.)
Favorite movies–(besides HP) French Kiss, Maid of Honor, A Lot Like
Love, Just Married, and Sweet Home Alabama. Oh, and Miss Congeniality,
Sabrina (both versions) and a 1940′s movie called Dear Ruth. If you
haven’t seen it, you should! A-dorable. Anything with Doris Day and most
all of Marilyn’s and Audrey’s.
Amy can be reached through the Contact link on her Website.
Katie Rose Fisher loved Samuel Beachy with an intensity that shook their
Amish district. No one doubted they would one day marry, until Samuel
turned his back on the church and joined the world of the English.
Alone now in Clover Ridge, Katie Rose dedicates her life to God and the
school children she teaches each day. Although she secretly longs for
more, Katie knows God’s hand is at work, and she is happy.
News correspondent Zane Carson never even knew Oklahoma had an Amish
community until he got the chance to live among them and learn about
their day-to-day activities. Their simple way of life is intriguing, but
not half as much as the young teacher.
Katie Rose is flattered over the attention she receives from Zane, but
she has resolved to never marry. Even if she were to entertain the idea,
it surely couldn’t be with an outsider like Zane.
Never one prone to the restraints of organized religion, Zane finds a
comfort in the rituals and blessings in the day to day righteous living
of this small Amish community. He finds himself, God, and love with
Katie Rose.
But as Zane draws closer to Katie Rose, Samuel comes back to repent his
ways and return to his place at her side. Can Zane convince Katie Rose
that he is committed to adapting to her way of life, or will Samuel win
her affections back for himself once again?
If you would like to read the first chapter of Katie's Choice, go HERE.
My Thoughts:
I read Lillard's first book in this series, Saving Gideon, and could not wait for this second installment. With her first book, she made me a fan and now with this second in the series, Lillard has confirmed me as a loyal fan. She has a unique way of telling a story while meshing the modern with the Amish without compromising a true to life display of Amish life. I absolutely loved Katie's character in this book. Lillard's characterization and description is impeccable! This story held so many tender moments that I was sad to turn the last page...wishing it was a bit longer! I can't wait to see what happens next in Clover Ridge. The people there feel like family!
Alton L. Gansky is the author of 24 novels and 8 nonfiction works, as
well as principle writer of 9 novels and 2 nonfiction books. He has been
a Christie Award finalist (A Ship Possessed) and an Angel Award winner (Terminal Justice)
and recently was award the ACFW award for best suspense/thriller for
his work on Fallen Angel. He holds a BA and MA in biblical studies and
Lit.D. He lives in central California with his wife.
In addition to his own writing, Alton Gansky has consulted and provided
editing/
writing services to several CBA publishers and written copy, video scripts, and other works for the general business market. Through Gansky.Communications he has consulted with publishers and agents, as well as provided editing services.
He is “the go to guy” for co-writing having been selected by Penguin,
Waterbrook, Broadman Holman, and other publishers to work with their top
tier authors.
Gansky is in frequent demand at writer’s conferences having taught and
keynoted in California, Arizona, New Mexico, North Carolina, Delaware,
Washington, and Canada. He has also been guest lecturer on suspense
writing at Taylor University in Indiana.
Alton can be reached through the Contact link on his Website.
A man’s lifeless body is found in the fresh soil of San Diego’s
botanical garden. Cause of death is asphyxiation, an easy call for the
medical examiner. More mysterious, however, are the tiny drops of blood
on the victim’s skin, resulting from hundreds of punctures.
A rabbi leaving his house for work expects a regular day at the
synagogue. That quickly changes when he discovers a dead man on his
front lawn, clearly beaten to death.
Motorcycle riders racing along the empty streets of an abandoned
military base stumble across another man’s corpse, its skin revealing
long, red-purple marks of a thrashing given with wood dowels.
The numbers mount. Each week another victim and another mysterious clue
in a game of mass murder the police don’t want to lose. The solution
rests with Dr. Ellis Poe, a religious professor who only wishes to be
left alone with his books and classes.
But evil must be faced, and the choice is no longer his own.
If you would like to read the first chapter of Wounds, go HERE.
My Thoughts:
My initial thought is just this: WOW! I just finished reading this book about 30 minutes ago and it has been quite a while since I have read a novel so well written! Mr. Gansky's characterization and plot development is so intricate and well done. He literally had me involved in the story from page one! Wounds is a gritty novel with a unique biblical twist incorporated into the story. The detail and description of characters and events is unlike any I've ever read. I literally felt as if I were right beside Detective Rainmondi as she is trying to solve this case. Mr. Gansky certainly has a gift and I'm sorry I haven't discovered it before now!
Susan Merrill is a hybrid of sorts. She majored in finance but loves people more than numbers. She left behind the corporate gray of banking for the colorful world of kids. She had three children and adopted two more. Susan is the very imperfect Merrill family manager and the director of iMOM.com. She loves to analyze life, ponder possibilities, and pray for opportunity, which makes for a very busy and messy house! She lives in Tampa, Florida, with her husband - Family First founder and author Mark Merrill - and two, or depending on the day, up to five of her children ages seventeen to twenty-two. On those days, she happily forsakes all other responsibilities to run a bed and breakfast and laundromat for college students.
You can connect with Susan through her website found at www.susanme.com, Twitter and Facebook.
Book Description:
Motherhood is full of uncertainty. What do my children really need?
Why are they doing that? Is this normal? What can I do to help them?
How can I know for certain that I am doing this right? The logistics are easy. Anybody can do laundry and carpool. But what makes a mother the best mom she can be?
It’s not better scheduling. Or more activities. Or less. It is passion—the passion to teach, protect, study, and prepare her children for the future. Great, but how?
Susan Merrill, the mother of five incredibly different children, has
asked that question countless times. And she has read countless answers
specific to a certain child’s temperament, age, or situation. But
nothing she read offered an overall approach to parenting that would
enable her to say with confidence, “I am doing this right.” She never
guessed she would find a foundational plan—a reliable, universal
parenting approach in the Old Testament book of Nehemiah.
In The Passionate Mom, Susan takes you on a journey through
Nehemiah and into the heart of parenting. Her stories and confessions in
every chapter reveal what she has learned: no mom can control her
child’s future, but every mom can parent well. There is a plan—a roadmap
for how a passionate mom can parent almost any child, confidently.
You can visit the Thomas Nelson product page for this book to learn more and to see what others are saying about The Passionate Mom: Dare to Parent in Today's World.
My Thoughts About the Book:
There are a plethora of parenting books on the shelves of book stores - secular and Christian - and many of them I have read. Most of the ones I have come into contact with offer some variation of formula, theory or psychological musing about "how to make your kids behave" in a certain amount of time. Furthermore, many of these books are heavy on "theory" and very shallow to non-existent on application or they focus completely on outward behavior and leave out heart issues all together.
Thankfully, Susan Merrill offers us moms a refreshing book that addresses parenting in a way that rises far above so much of the "advice" that is being given to us. In The Passionate Mom, Susan draws from the story of Nehemiah to give us what she calls "a pattern for us to follow" in building a wall for our childrenwhich involves the following "bricks and mortar":
Problem Solving - Faith, Courage, Generosity, Determination
Perseverance
This wall Susan suggests we build for our children has two dimensions - protection and provision. Susan says:
"The wall protects your child from exposure to harm from the outside world. The gates in the wall provide your child access to the training he or she needs to wisely navigate in the world, independent of you...You are the wall and the gates, the protection from the world and the provider of training for life in the world...The bricks we will use to build our parenting are our ten P's. To secure those bricks so that the wall is strong and effective, we need mortar. The mortar is our character, made up of the traits that moms must personally develop to effectively hold our bricks in place."
In closing the book, Susan says this:
"Of all the things you do in life, in the end, loving God and investing in the lives you love will be the only things that matter...Nehemiah chose life. He readily gave up his comfy career in the palace to care for the lives of others. That is parenting. You give up your comfy live of sleeping in, Cheerio-less cars, and meals of your choice in quiet restaurants to care for your children...From the time Nehemiah heard from his brother about the devastation of his people's city until the day of the wall's completion was about nine months. In the time it takes to give birth to a child, Nehemiah gave birth to renewed hope for the Israelites...You are called to lay the foundation for your son's or daughter's faith. You can build a strong wall to protect your child, but if you don't lay a solid foundation for what he or she believes, you will have missed your mission...In the end, Nehemiah's last concern was finding favor with God, because He was the source for all that mattered to Nehemiah."
In The Passionate Mom, Susan offers the perfect and balanced blend of scriptural exhortation, personal application, and sharing of her own personal struggles and examples. She doesn't let us moms off easy in our responsibility; however, she is encouraging in her challenge to us. Susan doesn't paint with a wide brush typical of so many parenting authors. She boldly and lovingly (like a close discerning friend) asks contemplative questions that help you to assimilate what she is sharing into your own experience and place in life.
The information in the book is well organized making it an easy reference tool to return to often in a particular situation. The Passionate Mom would be an excellent resource for use in a small group study with moms of all ages with children of all ages. I found it helpful as a personal study guide in my own study through the book of Nehemiah. Susan doesn't force application between Nehemiah and parenting where it compromises the truth of scripture or takes God's Word out of context, but does bring light to general themes and ideas to help us along our way as mothers.
Mother's Day is quickly approaching and this book would be an excellent gift! I highly recommend it!
I received this book from Thomas Nelson in exchange for my review. I was not expected to necessarily give a positive review. All opinions are my own.
