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Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Women of Faith: IMAGINE - Friday Evening/Saturday

If you missed my recap of the Women of Faith Imagine Pre-Conference, you can see that HERE
The actual Women of Faith weekend began at 7 p.m. on Friday evening.  The hotel where we were staying the night was a bit of distance away from the arena, so by the time we got checked in and had dinner, we were late getting back to the event.  We missed Kenn Kingston (Christian comedian).  Our group wasn't too upset, because we were blessed with wonderful fellowship over dinner.  When we did arrive, the Women of Faith Praise Team was leading in worship.  They are a very talented group of ladies! 

Cecily and I had really good seats for the weekend - floor seats about eight rows from the stage!  Thank you again Thomas Nelson for the complimentary tickets for this event!

After the praise team, a World Vision video was shown.  Please understand what I'm about to say.  I firmly believe helping those in need and yes I am very concerned about families, especially children in other countries that don't have some of the most basic needs like clean water and food.  BUT...the push for sponsoring a child in World Vision at Women of Faith was simply overbearing.  The push to sponsor was constant the entire weekend even with sponsorship packets including pictures of children being left on each seat.  And being told "don't worry they (as if the child themselves were there in person) will be there waiting for you when you return in the morning".  After almost every speaker, something was said or a video shown regarding World Vision.  It was almost as if attendees were being "guilted" into sponsoring a child.  At one point, my daughter (13) was crying as she looked at the packet left in her seat.  She was sad, because she is aware of our family's financial situation and knows that we simply can't afford a $35 a month sponsorship.  We would not have even been at this conference if it had not been for the complimentary tickets from Thomas Nelson.  With that said, there is nothing wrong with mentioning the need for sponsors or showing a couple of videos to give a visual of the need; however, deciding to do something like sponsor a child in another country should be a decision made in one's own heart and not because they have been fed constant guilt to do so.  I have multiple families around me in my neighborhood who are struggling to feed their families and we help them as we can and serve in other ways through our church.  The needs are great right around us.

Imagine resumed on Saturday morning at 9 a.m.  We got there about an hour before the first session, so Cecily and I had time to "shop" a little.  One of the things I had planned to pick up was Angie Smith's book I Will Carry You:  The Sacred Dance of Grief and Joy.  I have been following Angie's blog Bring The Rain for some time and have wanted to read this book in which she shares about the devastating loss of their baby girl Audrey Caroline.  Angie's husband sings with the Christian group Selah.  As we were picking up the book, the lady helping us at the product table let me know that Angie was signing and meeting people just down the way on the concourse, so Cecily and I grabbed the book and headed that direction.  We barely made it before Angie's meet and greet was over!  We were the last allowed in the line!
Such an opportunity, and wouldn't you know I'd have my eyes closed!!!  Angie is such a sweet, sweet girl.  She has also written another book, What Women Fear.  You would be blessed by checking out her books and her blog, which can be found at angiesmithonline.com.  She is genuine.  She is real.  She is refreshing.

After catching our breath a bit, we headed into the arena and Saturday's event got underway.
After praise and worship, Lisa Harper took the stage.
Lisa talked about looking at Jesus with blurry vision.  We were encouraged to overcome the enemy by telling out stories of healing.  She shared her background of sexual abuse as a child and how bruises on our hearts become areas of bondage for us if not completely given to the Lord.  She ended by quoting Psalm 139 and reminding us that we worship a God Who sees and knows everything about us and loves us anyway.
Sheila Walsh spoke again.  She is such a gifted speaker and I think it is because she is so transparent about her struggles and her utter dependence on the Lord.  Sheila spoke about God's mercy being severe, because He wants to make us like His Son.
"The Shepherd knows where to find you!" 
Walsh shared about her deep seated fear and feeling in her life that she needed to be perfect after her father was hospitalized in a psychiatric hospital.  He escaped from the hospital and was found dead at the age of 35.  Sheila went on to share about her clinical depression and subsequent hospitalization for psychiatric care at the age of 35.  She reminded us of how God covers us and spoke about Psalm 91:4, Psalm 143:8 and John 16:33.  She closed her time by singing How Great Thou Art.  Again, we were so blessed by her time.
After lunch, Nicole Johnson spoke.  Her testimony included divorce and remarriage and how she has learned to give her anger to God. 

Next to Sheila Walsh, my favorite speaker of the day was Angie Smith.  She spoke after Nicole Johnson and although I knew her story from reading and following her blog, it was a blessing to hear Angie share in person.
In the midst of sharing about the loss of her sweet baby girl Audrey Caroline, who only lived a little over two hours after birth, Angie shared about Peter walking on the water.  She pointed out that the word for Lord in Matthew 14:29 that Peter used when he cried "Lord save me" after beginning to drown is the Greek word Kyrios and means "Son of God, the one to Whom I belong". 
Angie's challenge was this:  When you think you are about to sink, you can call out to the Son of God, the One to Whom You belong. 
Next on the schedule was the gospel duo Mary Mary (sisters Tina and Erica Campbell).  Cecily and I were really excited about seeing them.  We both love the song Shackles, which was on Mary Mary's debut album.  I am sad to say, they were a huge disappointment.  There was very little if anything that was worshipful about their "performance".  There was so much frenetic energy in the arena as they sang.  It just didn't feel right.  Their dialogue between songs was silly and any reference to God or worship seemed forced and less than genuine.
The thing that completely blew me away was when Tina (on the left) not once, not twice, but three times took the Lord's name in vain on stage in front of over 6,000 women.  Yes, you heard me right!  She threw around the name of Christ so flippantly that I just knew I didn't hear right the first time, but then she did it again two more times.  To say I was shocked is a huge understatement.  There was a heaviness in my chest that wouldn't let up after that.

I have emailed Mary Graham, president of Women of Faith about this.  I did so because it seemed as if this whole experience was glossed over by those in charge at the event.  Mary Mary was asked back on stage to close out the event.  As of this posting, I have not gotten a response back from Ms Graham.  As soon as I do, I will add an update with her response in full to this post; so check back in the next few days.

The last speaker of the day was Lucy Swindoll.  I'm not sure if it was because I felt the Holy Spirit was so grieved after Mary Mary's performance and that the Lord's blessing had left the arena, but Swindoll's talk was just very generic.  She spoke about "enjoying the moment you are in" and "taking care of your souls", but shared not one instructive word from Scripture about how to do this in a way that honors the Lord.  It was just very general and nothing specific or with substance. 

At the end there was a quick recap or "take-away" from each speaker:
  • Lisa Harper - Addictions are disorders of worship.
  • Angie Smith - Remember "kyrios" - the Son of God, the One to Whom You Belong
  • Nicole Johnson - Fairy tales are a glimpse of the gospel, because they let us see ourselves as we really are.  (Not quite sure exactly what she was trying to say here??)
  • Lucy Swindoll - Don't wait...live fully now.  (Here she gave a very vague reference to a passage in 1 Corinthians.  She said, "In 1 Corinthians, oh you know somewhere there on the right side of the page"...and then gave a very loose paraphrase of whatever scripture she was refering to.)
  • Sheila Walsh - The Shepherd knows where to find you.  The Shepherd's job is to get you all the way home.
Stongest things about the weekend:

  • Sheila Walsh was the strongest speaker by far!  Next in line would be Angie Smith and Lisa Harper.
  • The event was kept on schedule and flowed nicely.
  • Getting lunch to that number of women went smoothly.
Weakest things about the weekend:
  • Performance by Mary Mary - such a disappointment.
  • Constant World Vision push
  • I didn't even need my Bible, because there was very little Scripture shared over the course of the weekend with the exception of Sheila Walsh's talks.  Testimonies are good and very much needed; however, when 6,000 women are gathered together they need to hear clearly a presentation of the gospel - that didn't happen.  References to Scripture were vague at best.
Will I go to another Women of Faith event?  Maybe.  While I had a good time in fellowship with the group of ladies I was with and enjoyed spending the weekend with my daughter, I'm looking for something with a little more depth.

And if the truth be told, women who are lost and dying without a Savior are too.

Blessings,

Monday, October 31, 2011

Women of Faith: IMAGINE - Preconference on Friday

Several months ago, I connected with Thomas Nelson for the amazing opportunity to attend the Women of Faith event in Ft. Lauderdale Florida.  They sent me two complimentary tickets with the understanding that after I attended the event, I would blog about my experience here for you!  Thank you Thomas Nelson for making this past weekend possible!
The theme for the weekend was "Imagine" based on Ephesians 3:20 - "Now to Him Who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within us..."  As you'll be able to see through the pictures I share, the setting/stage area was beautifully done.  The event was held in Ft. Lauderdale Florida at the Bank Atlantic Center.
The best part of attending this event is that I got to spend it with my 13 year old daughter, Cecily.
Cecily and I traveled to Ft. Lauderdale with a group of ladies that I share Bible study with every Thursday morning.
Cecily, Me, Cassie, Patti, Ann, Carrie, Debbie

"Imagine" began on Friday morning at 10 a.m. with the pre-conference, which included speakers Sheila Walsh and Dr. Henry Cloud.
Sheila Walsh was up first.  I have to say that she was my favorite "Imagine" speaker (my daughter agrees with me) of the entire weekend!  She began her talk on Friday by sharing her favorite verse in the Psalms which is chapter 143 verse 8,
"Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in you."
Sheila shared a prayer that she voices every morning, which is "Wherever You are going today Lord, I'm coming with You!  She went on to encourage attendees to focus their thoughts on what is always true and then shared that God's promises as found in Scripture are always true.  She went on to share from Romans 8, which is a chapter she says "begins with no condemnation and ends with no separation" and then stated, "God has picked up your tab.  Your debt of sin is paid in full."  Walsh ended her talk by singing "Amazing Grace".

Sheila Walsh's talk was so well-rounded.  She shared truth unashamedly from Scripture.  She was funny.  And she absolutely sang the roof off the arena!  I felt the Holy Spirit most at work whenever she was taking part in the weekend, whether it was when she was speaking or sharing in song.
Dr. Henry Cloud took the stage next.  While he shared some helpful observations about faith and happiness (I really didn't like that he used the term "happiness" as opposed to "joy".), his points were based more on psychological studies than Scripture.  He asked attendees to look at using their imaginations in the realm of faith in three areas:
  1. Clinical - the parts that hurt
  2. Relationships
  3. Dreams/Goals - specific gifts and talents
Cloud went on to share that the American Psychological Association's study that sought to answer the question of what makes people happy, revealed that only 10% of happiness comes from anything circumstantial.  The remaining percentage of where happiness comes from is derived from spiritual practices lived out.  He shared three areas in which this phenomenon can be observed:
  1. Giving/generosity
  2. Being connected - Our needs are transformational (where we grow new wiring) and trans mutational (where change takes place).  It is in this discussion that Dr. Cloud shares his one and only reference to Scripture which was 1 Peter 4:10, "Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God's grace in its various forms."  
  3. Purpose of set goals
Cloud was easy to follow and was good at interjecting humor, while maintaining a depth to what he was sharing.

After Dr. Cloud, there was a break for lunch. 
 
Cecily and I sat outside in front of the arena and ate our lunch.  I have attended Women of Faith events in the past and getting lunch then was always complete and utter chaos.  At the event this past weekend, lunch time went really smooth.  Mind you, we are talking about getting a couple of thousand ladies served!  The Women of Faith organization has definitely made improvement in this area!



Like I mentioned earlier in this post, the staging was really beautiful!  After lunch, there was more from Dr. Henry Cloud.  This second talk centered around the idea that the next season of our lives will require some necessary endings.  
Next on the schedule was a Q and A with Dr. Cloud and Sheila Walsh.  Prior to this time attendees had the opportunity to write down questions for them.  A few were presented to Cloud and Walsh during the Q and A in which they both shared sound advice both from personal experience and Scripture (Walsh).  Dr. Cloud's advice came more from his experience in his previous psychiatric practice, but was good nonetheless.  Some overarching principles that I wrote down from the Q and A were these:
  • Townsend on setting boundaries - Be hard on the issue and soft on the person.  Seek and pray for a softness of heart.
  • Sheila - Learn to "be still" before the Lord.  She shared that "be still" in the Hebrew language means to "let go".  Her encouragement was to give our worries, cares, anxieties to the Lord in complete trust.  
After the Q and A time, Sheila came back and closed out the pre-conference.  I appreciated that she shared with strong conviction that "God's word is more reliable than my feelings".  We as women need to be reminded of that truth and she shared it boldly.  Walsh read from John 14:27,
"Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you.  I do not give to you as the world gives.  Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid."
Walsh stated in relation to that Scripture, "Peace is not the absence of trouble but the presence of Christ".  She shared more Scripture from Mark 4:35-41 and Mark 5.  She concluded her talk with this:
"There is peace in one place - at the feet of Jesus".
And then she sang "You Raise Me Up".  And again the Spirit moved mightily.

*This video isn't from the conference, but is Sheila singing You Raise Me Up on LifeToday.   I'll share about Friday night and Saturday at Women of Faith - Imagine tomorrow as well as summarize my impression of the event as a whole.

Blessings,
 






Thursday, October 27, 2011

Sunrise on The Battery

According to Beth Webb Hart, author of Sunrise on The Battery, "With every novel I write, I start with a question to which I desperately want the answer.  I write to the heart of that question, often revealing my own tensions, doubts and fears, and I always find that God meets me in the midst of the narrative, takes my hand (as well a the characters') and shows us they way to go."

After reading David Platt's book Radical:  Taking Back Your Faith from the American Dream, Beth began asking herself these questions:
What would it look like if we really loved each other - if we had no inhibitions about sharing our faith and our very lives with a hurting world?  How would we really spend our time and our money?  And what impact would this have on our communities, our country and the world?

Radical uncovered blind spots in her own life and helped Beth to fully imagine just where her characters' uninhibited faith might take them.  The story in her latest novel Sunrise on The Battery was born.

Synopsis of the Book:
Mary Lynn Scoville has everything anyone could desire - a handsome husband, three beautiful daughters and a ticket into the social elite of Charleston, S.C.  But after a miraculous answer to a prayer on her behalf, Mary Lynn decides to pray that her husband will discover the faith she loves.  But when her prayers are answered, she finds her world turned upside down and is forced to deal with the idols she has created in her own life.
Jackson Scoville is a man on a mission.  Growing up deprived of the finer things in life, he wants more for his children.  His mission is to give his girls the best - a top-rate education, exposure and immersion in the fine arts and frequent opportunities to see the big world.  "Not just education baby - cultivation", he is known to say.  But when he discovers the truth of Scripture, his focus takes a quick turn - a turn his family may not like to take.

My thoughts about the book:
I wanted so much to like this book.  And I appreciate very much the premise from which Ms Hart was writing.  I'm just not sure she pulled it off so well.  To be honest much of the book was really boring.  I did appreciate that the story flips back and forth and is told from the perspectives of the mother, father, and oldest daughter.  However, the meat of the story gets lost in all the details in which Ms Hart describes the South Carolina area.  Jackson's "conversion" doesn't happen until about three-fourths way into the book, and the ending was anti-climatic.

Sunrise on the Battery, can be ordered from Amazon.com by going HERE.

Thank you to Audra with the B&B Media Group for sending me a complimentary copy of the book for the purpose of review!

Blessings,

God Makes Lemonade

Don Jacobson, former president and owner of Multnomah Publishers, has created a collection of short stories designed to serve as a fresh glass of hope and inspiration for hard times.
The first in a series, God Makes Lemonade, collects true stories of hope and inspiration similar in style to that of the Chicken Soup for the Soul series.  According to Don as stated on his website godmakeslemonade.com
"In God Makes Lemonade™ you’ll read true stories from everyday folks—people like you and me who discover unexpected sweetness in the midst of sour circumstances.
Some of these real-life stories are laugh-out-loud funny, others are sobering, and more than a few will have you reaching for a tissue.  But these true stories all have one thing in common:  hope."
Along with this series of books, Don and his wife Brenda,who are both passionate about helping single mothers and their children, have established the LemonAid Foundation.  According to the website,
"The LemonAid Foundation is commissioning a major research project that will clarify the most critical needs of single mothers and their children. This research will enable the foundation to plan its first initiatives to assist single mothers, as well as to recruit like-minded individuals and organizations to this important cause."
All the royalties from God Makes Lemonade, will benefit single mothers and their children through the LemonAid Foundation, which seeks to serve them with love and compassion. 

You can also participate with this project on Facebook at www.facebook.com/godmakeslemonade.  

The book can be ordered at Amazon.com by going HERE.

Thank you Glass Road Public Relations for sending me a complimentary copy of this book!

Blessings,

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Thespians and Firefighters

A couple of weekends ago, Cecily (our oldest) participated in a Junior Thespian competition where she submitted three pieces in the costume design category.
Her assignment was to pick a play (she chose Blithe Spirit) and research it.  Then she was to choose three characters from the play and design costumes for each, choose material, and sketch the designs. 


The pictures do not do her designs justice!  They were very detailed and she did a really good job.  She worked very hard on them and it paid off, because she was given a Super Superior rating by a panel of three judges!  She had to give an oral presentation about the play and her designs to the judges.  Cecily's teacher let me read the comments from each of the judges and I was so proud of her!  Each judge praised her for her knowledge of the play and its characters, each stating their amazement that they could not stump her with their questions.  She will go onto the state competition in February.

Now while Cecily was at her competition that Saturday, Mike and I took the two little ones to our local Fire Department that was having an open house.

Fireman John showed Bentley and JennaBeth around the station, gave them some goodies (hat, coloring book about fire safety and a dvd) and then let them do some things outside with the fire hose and truck.  Bentley was being a little shy, but JennaBeth jumped right in the middle of things just like she knew what she was doing!
Bentley eventually got over his shyness and joined in on the fun.
They also got to "drive" the firetruck...


JennaBeth, I think, thought she was really gonna drive that truck!  Fireman John helped her down and she tried to crawl right back in the driver's seat.  He was rather taken with her tenacity about the whole experience!
Fireman John and the kids
JennaBeth, Me, Mike and Bentley
This is how I found the two little ones that following Sunday morning as were getting ready to leave for church...
Blessings,

Before the Throne Wednesday

Welcome this week to another opportunity to pray scripture over your children.  I have to tell you that I come today with a heavy heart regarding a loved one.  So, as I present today's scripture, I'm praying it for my own children, but also I'm praying it for this boy who so needs to know and understand the presence and work of Almighty God in his young life.

Our scripture today is found in Psalm 119:41-42,
"May Your unfailing love come to me, O LORD, Your salvation according to your promise; then I will answer the one who taunts me, for I trust in Your word."
Guess what the words "unfailing love" are translated in the original language?

Hesed...

God's mercy...such a rich word and something not a one of use could live one millisecond without.  Here's some of what the word hesed (unfailing love) means according to Theological Wordbook of the Old Testament and Old Testament Word Studies (I've put in bold print things I want to emphasize.):

Hesed means to be merciful, faithful.  Love, kindness, mercy.  One of the most important words in the O.T., hesed essentially denotes an act of kindness, love, or mercy.  The quality of the kindness shown is usually that reserved for close friends and family members.  An act of hesed presupposes the existence of a relationship between the parties involved, but where no formal relationship has previously been recognized, the person exercising hesed has chosen to treat the recipient as if such a relationship did exist.   Hesed is central to God's character It is closely tied to His covenant with His chosen people; in fact, the covenant may be thought of as the relationship from which hesed flows.  God's hesed however, is not bound by the covenant itself, and though men may prove unfaithful to this relationship, God's hesed is everlasting.
John Calvin's commentary on these verses:
"Because there is no hope apart from God's mercy, the cause, steadfast love, comes before the effect, salvation - and this, according to His promise.  In verse 42, he declares he has the best defense against his enemies' slanders in that his trust is in the Word of God alone.  God never disappoints those whose confidence is in His Word".

Everlasting, steadfast, unfailing love - mercy - that's what our children need in their lives.  That's we as parents and grandparents need in our lives as well.  Pray today that your children/grandchildren will have it, will find it and will abide in it.

Blessings,

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

The Opposite of Art by Athol Dickson

 
Glass Road Public Relations sent me a copy of Athol Dickson's latest novel The Opposite of Art for the purpose of review.  You can visit Mr. Dickson's website by visiting atholdickson.com.  There you will find a complete bio as well as links to his blog and information about his books.  Mr. Dickson's novel Lost Mission was his third Christy award winner and his fifth to be nominated for that award. His writing has been compared to that of Flannery O'Connor.  He and his wife live in Southern California and he is the publisher of the popular news website dailycristo.com

Synopsis of The Opposite of Art:
A great artist is cast into the icy Harlem River by a hit-and-run driver.  His heart stops and he sees something that defies description.  Presumed to be dead by all who knew him and obsessed by a desire to paint the inexpressible, he embarks on a pilgrimage to seek help from holy men around the globe.  But is it possible to see eternity without becoming lost in it?  After a quarter of a century, when the world begins to whisper that he may be alive, two people come looking for the artist:  the daughter he never knew existed and the murderer who hit him on the bridge all those years ago.

My thoughts:
The Opposite of Art is not a light read.  Dickson's writing makes you have to stop and ponder what you are reading; so much so that I found myself getting bogged down and at points not wanting to finish the book.  It is an intriguing read about a man's search for the Glory, which he desires to capture on canvas.  I was disappointed that there was not a clear picture of Christ as The Glory in Ridler's journey.  The book just simply left me wanting.

The Opposite of Art includes a reading group guide as well as a Q and A with Mr. Dickson at the end of the book.  




The Opposite of Art can be purchased from Amazon.com by going HERE

Blessings,